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Does What You Wear Encourage Men To Stumble?

August 28, 2009 by Traci

Matthew 5:28
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
I have to be careful not to use this blog as a Soapbox; or wait,

is that what a blog is?

I have a big problem with immodesty. Not the kind that makes me judge, but the kind that makes my Spirit cringe.

I understand the world feeling the need to dress the way they want, wear that flirtatious mini skirt, showoff that cleavage, but Christian Women?

Is Modesty a thing of the past?

It makes my soul do summer salts.; I get uncomfortable. Things run through my mind:

There are grown men in this room,

The only man you should try to impress is your OWN husband,
in the privacy of your own home,

Do you know we are at church?

I feel like running over to them, and tucking a napkin into the top of their shirt (kind of joking, but not really).

How do I say something without sounding like I’m judging? Or should I really be concerned about that part of it?

What are your thoughts? Do you have a similar situation?

Check out my “Modest Clothing Links” in the sidebar to the right —–>

Click Below For A Modesty Checklist
(Remember that this is just a checklist, and the ultimate check is between you and the Lord)

Jocelyn says,
Your shirts should be tight enough to show
you’re a woman, but loose enough to show you’re a lady.

modesty checklist

Some Other Posts About Modesty:

Amy, @ They Call Me Mommy (Interviewed her Husband)

Sarah Mae @ Like A Warm Cup of Coffee (Closet Clean out)

Proverbs 7 (The Whole Chapter)

Romans 14:13
Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.
Isaiah 5:21
Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight!
1 Corinthians 10:31
Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.
1 Peter 2:9
But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous light;
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
Job 31:1
I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?
Proverbs 11:22
As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.

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I'm a curly-headed dreamer, currently living in Ashland, Ohio. I'm a photographer, and recently made my business official (LLC). I would love to talk to you about booking a photoshoot with me! View my photo gallery (click here) Check out my pricing and choose your package (click here) I love coffee, chocolate and potato chips.  I love a good … Read More...

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